I currently use xfce4-panel and xfdesktop together with openbox. When I send a window to all desktops (sometimes also called sticky), it disappears from the windowlist. It does not appear in Icon Box either if I unset the option "Show applications of all Workspaces" (if I set the option, it does). In Window Selector (Gnome applet, using xfapplet) the sticky window apppears. I hope this is the right place to submit this bug.
Addition: I use openbox 3.4.4 and xfce4-panel 4.4.1 on debian.
Works fine here with xfwm4.